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Here we go again… (Visit to the Fertility Doc)

January 22, 2015 by heatherss 19 Comments

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I was sitting in the waiting room of the fertility clinic. It was nearly my turn to go in and I felt a familiar lurch of my stomach.  Getting on the infertility rollercoaster again can be nauseating. You never know what’s going to happen. You are entirely at the mercy of your body. However, I’ve learnt a few things on my previous ride. Everything started going right for me last time when I went to Medfem and saw Dr R. So I’m starting in the right place this time, hopeful and prayerful that Nicky can have a sibling.

It was reassuring that he remembered me and my miracle situation last time (getting pregnant right before IVF). The laparoscopy and the thyroid meds did the trick.

However, that was back in 2011. Time has not been kind to my reproductive organs. I’m turning 41 in March.

Dr R did a scan and showed me that my uterus looks fine, but my ovaries are small. This means that I don’t have many eggs left. He said that a full blown IVF would be a waste of time because apparently you need “numbers” for that. And I don’t have the “numbers”.

So what do we do now?

We hope for natural conception while doing a whole lot of detective work to set things up for a best case scenario.

And tests. A whole lot of tests. I have to go and do:

1) Fasting test for insulin, TSH, Free T4, Thyroid antibodies, and Prolactin (to check if the breastfeeding is affecting things, but he seemed to think not)

2) Day 3 of my cycle: FSH, 17-B Oestradiol

3) Day 10 come in for a scan

4)  Test (to check for endometriosis)

Well folks, here’s hoping for another miracle…

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Filed Under: Fertility, My Fertility Story, TTC#2 Tagged With: fertility clinic, Medfem, older mothers, trying to conceive #2, TTC#2

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  1. Jozi Meth says

    January 22, 2015 at 8:24 pm

    Will remember you in my prayers for a miracle, Heather!

    Reply
  2. Shanêy Vijendranath says

    January 22, 2015 at 9:04 pm

    Crossing fingers for you!

    Reply
  3. Maz says

    January 22, 2015 at 10:34 pm

    Good luck!

    Reply
  4. Chevone says

    January 23, 2015 at 3:21 am

    Crossing all fingers and toes for you Heather!

    Reply
  5. Momma Jo says

    January 23, 2015 at 5:40 am

    Praying for good news Hun.

    Reply
  6. Hayley Malan says

    January 23, 2015 at 6:15 am

    All the best Heather 🙂

    Reply
  7. Sula says

    January 23, 2015 at 6:50 am

    Hope that your dreams come true again. The TTC game is not for sissies. If I can give 1 bit of advice, it’s to do reflexology. After trying for a year to conceive my son Fjord, I went for a course of 10 treatments, the cycle after the last treatment, I fell pregnant. Even if I hadn’t fallen pregnant the treatments put me in a really good space.

    Reply
    • heatherss says

      January 23, 2015 at 11:10 am

      Thanks Sula. I actually did acupuncture last time when I conceived.

      Reply
  8. Melanie says

    January 23, 2015 at 7:21 am

    Thinking of you and praying for your miracle.

    Reply
  9. Cindy says

    January 23, 2015 at 10:07 am

    How daunting but exciting all at the same time. Wishing you all the very best!!

    Reply
  10. Laura says

    January 23, 2015 at 2:33 pm

    Sending ALL the baby dust in the world!

    Reply
  11. MrsFF says

    January 25, 2015 at 11:53 am

    Big hugs! Praying all goes well and your TTC journey is a very short one

    Reply
  12. Shannon says

    January 25, 2015 at 8:43 pm

    Crossing all fingers and toes for your miracle!

    Reply
  13. Babiesandus says

    January 26, 2015 at 9:17 am

    All the best! I hope you will get your 2nd miracle. Have you done a AMH test?

    Reply
    • heatherss says

      January 26, 2015 at 10:38 am

      No I haven’t – do you think I should? What about you? Have you decided not to try anymore for #2? Thanks for the comment 🙂

      Reply
    • heatherss says

      January 26, 2015 at 10:45 am

      ok I just read your post now so I guess I have the answer to my questions. 🙁

      Reply
  14. MamaCat says

    January 26, 2015 at 11:49 am

    Good Luck with the journey, hope it is not too long.

    Reply
  15. Bright Side of Life says

    January 27, 2015 at 10:08 am

    Good luck, not an easy journey for you.

    Reply
  16. Karen at MomAgain@40 says

    January 27, 2015 at 12:07 pm

    Holding thumbs and toes!!

    Reply

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