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Sad news

July 7, 2010 by heatherss 7 Comments

Hi guys

Just wanted to let you know that my period arrived today. So I guess the IUI did not work.

I was at my second day of work surrounded by an art project for my kids. We are making little booklets that you stick on the fridge to do your shopping list. It’s a nice creative art project.

When I got home I was sorting through my scrapbooking stuff looking for flowers to use for this project and I came across some inspirational paper and I was glad I did. This was after I’d stuffed myself with junk food (KFC, plus avalanche with chocolate brownies) and sent sms’s to all my friends and had a chat with my boss as well (She said “I don’t want you to give up”. and “Have you thought about adoption?” (aah!) My hubby is also sad, but he gave me lots of funny sms’s today to keep me smiling (about how the dogs are our babies, did Coffee (our one dog who sleeps with us) kick me in the night, we can get take aways..)

So anyway.. here are the quotes:

“Obstacles are those frightful things you see when you take your eyes off your goal.” Henry Ford

“Don’t be discouraged. It’s often the last key in the bunch that opens the lock.”

“Persistence trumps talent and looks every time.” Aaron Brown

“Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss, you’ll land among the stars.”

“Press on: nothing in the world can take the place of perseverance. Talent  will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent. Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not; the world is full of educated derelicts.  Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent.” Calvin Coolidge

“Life is a journey, not a destination”

“Difficult things take a long time, impossible things a little longer.”

Well I hope you were also inspired. Yes I need a break to eat rubbish. I do. I need to take some time out and be angry at the universe.

But after I’ve had my tantrum, I’ll come back to my journey. I’m not sure right now about my new direction. I did buy a lotto ticket on the way home in the vain hope that a lotto win will pay for IVF (yes that is the next step but we just don’t have the money right now).

So I’m letting it go for now. I’m taking a pit stop. I feel like I have been so focused on this for too long and I need to live my life for a bit and build up strength again.

Well that’s all from me for now.

Thanks for reading my rant today…

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  1. Stacy H. says

    July 7, 2010 at 5:53 pm

    Girl, I know how depressing it is to have multiple faliures. But you have to try and remain positive. Remember ” The greatest accomplisments in your life, are those you work the hardest for.”

    Reply
  2. Teresa says

    July 8, 2010 at 12:13 am

    So sorry for your news was hopng you’d have some + news to post. I love these quotes of strength.

    Recharge and come back fighting 🙂

    Reply
  3. Heather Step says

    July 22, 2010 at 6:24 pm

    Thanks Stacy and Theresa. You don’t know how much your kind words mean to me. Sorry I only saw it now. May lots of love and blessings come your way!

    Reply
  4. Renaldo Eshmon says

    August 30, 2010 at 10:54 am

    Uncovered your site via msn the other day and absolutely like it. Continue this fantastic work.

    Reply
  5. Heather Step says

    August 30, 2010 at 11:28 am

    Thanks Renaldo, hope you subscribed on the side bar! Good to have you here, welcome.

    Reply
  6. buy kinect says

    October 15, 2010 at 4:46 am

    Greetings,

    I have a inquiry for the webmaster/admin here at surviveandthrive.thefertilityblogs.com.

    Can I use part of the information from your blog post above if I give a link back to this site?

    Thanks,
    Alex

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  7. Heather Step says

    October 15, 2010 at 5:12 pm

    Hi Alex – yes you can – link to this site and also to http://healwithheather.com/fertility.htm
    You can say “Heather Step is a grade one teacher, an EFT practioner and also an infertility survivor. Find her survival tips here: http://healwithheather.com/fertility.htm “

    Reply

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