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How my son is communicating through objects

January 22, 2014 by heatherss 9 Comments

toddler-bringing-nappyIt would probably be true to say that the majority of the communication between parent and toddler consists of a number of grunts – “My truck is stuck, please help me!” and cries – “I just woke up, please feed me!” But every now and then I am struck by something special that Nicky does, in this case using objects to tell me something.

1) Affection: Nicky can come to me with his arms open for a hug and he is a very loving boy. But he also has some quirky ways of showing love. If I stick my feet I his bath at the end of the day he loves to pour water over them. This is cute enough but it becomes less so when he flings handfuls of sand in the kitchen. We clean it up together.

2) Hunger: Nicky likes to go into the cupboard and get cutlery. He has ones he particularly likes – a little blue spoon, and a white plastic fork. He even went all the way to the dining table with his spoon as if to say: “Hurry up, mom, I’m hungry!” This doesn’t always happen, but I do give him some choices and today he grabbed a banana out of the fridge when I held him at that level. He knows where the biscuits are and will stand and moan at that point when he wants one! Oh, and don’t get me started on beastfeeding. He literally is able to remove my boob from my clothes if he wants. This is why I have to dress conservatively in public without “easy access”.

3) Nappy change: I was bowled over the other day when Nicky brought a nappy to tell me he needed a change. Not his normal one (he can’t reach those) but one of his “little swimmers” that were on a lower shelf. He has done it once again since then. I was very impressed!

spoon-and-fork-in-cupboard-door4) Fun: I don’t think there is any deeper meaning to him placing his favourite fork and spoon in the slats in the cupboard door. It just shows he is having fun poking objects through holes, much like he does with pegs and the hole in the shed.

So much is going on with this kid as he explores his way through the world. I am sure I am missing a lot but what I do notice is the unfolding of the miraculous and I am privileged to be here to see it.

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  1. Jessica @ fantabulosity.com says

    January 22, 2014 at 1:33 pm

    We really take for granted the younger years. I think we are so buys in every day life with young ones, that we don’t appreciate the little things that they do. Just like communication through objects.

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  2. Missy Homemaker says

    January 22, 2014 at 1:33 pm

    He is such a cutie! You’re a great mother for picking up on his cues. Could he possibly be interested in potty training?

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  3. Kasey says

    January 22, 2014 at 2:23 pm

    He’s getting so big and growing so much! Its truly amazing to see his development!

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  4. Tanya M says

    January 22, 2014 at 5:44 pm

    He’s adorable. I love figuring out ways babies and toddlers communicate. No one knows their cues better than mommy. Very cute and funny he knows how to access his milk. When I was nursing, my oldest would try to nurse off anything circular including my dads watch face and the at&t logo on my hubby’s t-shirt.

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  5. Christina says

    January 23, 2014 at 2:49 am

    Your son is very clever!

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  6. Tammy @ creativekkids.com says

    January 23, 2014 at 6:16 am

    I thought the same thing as Missy that Nicky might be ready to be potty trained!

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  7. S.I.F. says

    January 23, 2014 at 8:23 am

    Cracking up at the fork in the cupboard door – ingenious!

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  8. Adelien says

    January 23, 2014 at 10:24 am

    The time is flying away. There will be a time when you miss him being a still baby. I can see how he has grown a lot since the first time I visit your blog.

    Reply
  9. Jill @ Called To Be A Mom says

    January 23, 2014 at 2:45 pm

    I love this stage! I know there is so much going on in their little heads as they learn to communicate!

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